Well, this is a theme that is often eagerly awaited by the parents and also often a lot of parents complained. "Why did my child learn to love guns, maen wrote all day," complained one mother who attended my diseminar. The reader, you believe that our true life of man is a learner? But we often provide treatment that is not fun when children learn (unconsciously) and even once we were probably given the wrong stimulation so that learning is not fun.
For example, when we are babies and children aged 1 year. He wanted to include all items that can he held in his mouth, right? Well most people do when it is said "uh ... it's gross, guns should be" pulling the goods. Actually this is the basic behavior when a child is learning. Then when he began to walk, started wanting to know more about the environment, more and more restrictions issued by the parent or caregiver. Perhaps because of fatigue babysitting all day, so many restrictions are removed. And this is their desire to know (learn) more, populate the database in his brain that was still empty and needs to be filled.
We began to speak, asking this and that. "What is this? Why? "Accepted answer" LHA had been asked, ask again the basic fussy "when it may be the caregiver and the parents are too tired now keeping so lazy and tired to give an explanation and this is a learning process of a child. There's new stuff at home and the kids want to hold it or find out more closely, then our parents and guardians keep these items from him, saying later destroyed because of expensive goods.
Next are tips on how to order, our children to be diligent and easy to learn and schools.
1. When the school asked, "O dear, what a fun day at school?" Automatic brain will look for fun things at school and this will indirectly tell the child that school is a nice place.
2. When a child asleep (Hypnosleep), saying "the more the day, learning more fun", "as well as playing, learning is also very pleasant", "easy for you to learn (math, memorization, etc.)".
3. Explain the benefits of the lessons being learned (in accordance with the child's interests) eg: by studying the multiplication, then the next class up while on holiday or you'll be able to calculate what the price of goods will be purchased in Singapore and you can compare them with prices in Indonesia. If you master the conversation in English so you will be very easy to communicate with football coach bolamu that of Thailand.
4. Ask your tutor lessons (if any), often said that our kids are great kids and wonderful. Sincere praise and enthusiasm pumping far more important than teaching the techniques of rapid calculation and memorization. Enlist the help of people around including the teachers to enhance self-esteem of our children.
5. If our children were little and still love to read fairy tales, read stories to him assume the position (a position comfortable, and easier for us parents to give a kiss or a hug love love) aim to link the child to read books with the love of parents and the book is a very pleasant thing.
6. Use a confidential letter from parent to child, we can say "my son, my mother has put a secret letter for you. Only you and your mother knows it. Mom put a pillow under your bed, read after eating it ". Its contents can be words that encourage children in learning and school activities.